Why Teens Shouldn’t Drink: Risks and Guidance for Parents

Why Alcohol Hits Teens Differently

The teen brain is still developing, especially in areas related to judgment, impulse control, and decision-making. Alcohol interferes with this development, and its effects can be stronger and more unpredictable in teens than in adults.

Need help right now? If you or your teen might be in immediate danger, call 911. If you’re in the U.S. and need to talk to someone today, you can call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline). If you’re outside the U.S., your local emergency number or crisis line is the fastest option.

Risks of Underage Drinking

Underage drinking is linked to accidents, injuries, unsafe sexual situations, blackouts, academic problems, and higher risk of later substance use. Teens may underestimate these risks, especially when “everyone else is doing it.”

Why Teens Drink

Curiosity, peer pressure, social anxiety, and stress relief are common reasons. Some teens drink to feel more confident or to numb painful feelings. Understanding their reasons helps you respond with empathy instead of only rules.

How to Talk About Alcohol

Ask what your teen sees and hears about drinking among their peers. Share your concerns calmly and clearly. Explain your expectations and the reasons behind them, emphasizing safety and wellbeing rather than control.

Helping Teens Make Safer Choices

Even if your standard is no underage drinking, it can help to talk about what they should do if alcohol is present—how to say no, how to leave a situation, and how to call you if they feel unsafe. Your relationship is more important than any party.


Need more help right now?

If you or your teen is in immediate danger, please call 911 or go to the nearest emergency room.

If you are in crisis or worried about someone you love, you can reach out for free, confidential support:

  • 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline – Call or text 988, or chat online 24/7
  • NAMI Utah – Education, classes, and support groups for families
  • SafeUT App – A free, confidential chat and tip line for Utah youth and families
  • Local mental health providers – Therapists, counselors, and medical professionals in your area

This website is for general education only and is not a crisis or emergency service, and it does not provide diagnosis or treatment. You don't have to go through this alone—reaching out for help is a strong and hopeful step.

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