Facing a Topic No Parent Wants to Think About
Even saying the word suicide can feel frightening. Yet talking about it openly is one of the most important ways to protect teens who feel alone, hopeless, or overwhelmed.
Understanding Risk Factors
Risk increases when teens are dealing with depression, anxiety, trauma, bullying, family conflict, substance use, or major life changes. LGBTQ+ youth and those who feel different or isolated may be at higher risk.
Warning Signs to Watch For
Watch for talk of wanting to die, feeling like a burden, withdrawing from friends, sudden changes in behavior, giving away possessions, or searching for methods online. Sometimes there are no clear signs, which is why regular emotional check-ins matter.
How to Respond If You’re Worried
Ask directly and calmly about suicidal thoughts: Have things ever felt so hard that you’ve thought about not wanting to be here? Listen carefully and validate their feelings. If they share thoughts of suicide, thank them for telling you and move toward getting help.
Getting Help and Holding on to Hope
If there is any concern about safety, contact a crisis line, mental health professional, or emergency services. Many teens who once struggled with suicidal thoughts go on to live fulfilling lives. With support, treatment, and caring adults, recovery and hope are real possibilities.
Need more help right now?
If you or your teen is in immediate danger, please call 911 or go to the nearest emergency room.
If you are in crisis or worried about someone you love, you can reach out for free, confidential support:
- 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline – Call or text 988, or chat online 24/7
- NAMI Utah – Education, classes, and support groups for families
- SafeUT App – A free, confidential chat and tip line for Utah youth and families
- Local mental health providers – Therapists, counselors, and medical professionals in your area
This website is for general education only and is not a crisis or emergency service, and it does not provide diagnosis or treatment. You don't have to go through this alone—reaching out for help is a strong and hopeful step.
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